
Leadership is increasingly awash with buzzwords. Psychological Safety. Radical Candor. Growth Mindset. Each began as a powerful insight, grounded in solid research and human wisdom. Yet somewhere between the keynote speech and the next team meeting, their meaning starts to blur: a symptom of cognitive bias in leadership, which filters new ideas through comfort rather than curiosity. Over time, this bias distorts their intent, simplifying what was meant to challenge and soothing what was meant to stir.
It’s not a failure of intelligence, but a feature of how the brain works. The brain is a master of efficiency. It looks for shortcuts, prefers familiarity, and resists discomfort. Faced with complex or demanding ideas, it trims the nuance and keeps only the parts that feel safe or self-affirming.
That’s why Amy Edmondson’s concept of Psychological Safety can so easily be misread as “don’t upset anyone,” and Kim Scott’s idea of Radical Candor can slide into “I’m just being honest.” Both are noble ideas, but when filtered through unexamined bias, they lose their edge, not to mention their effectiveness.
In the first two articles of this series, we explored these ideas individually: the courage at the heart of Psychological Safety, and the compassion essential to Radical Candor. In this final piece, we’ll look deeper: at why so many well-intentioned leaders misinterpret them, and how understanding the Harrison Paradox Framework and practising mindful self-awareness can help us move beyond the buzzwords.
The human brain runs on roughly 20 watts of power – barely enough to light a dim bulb. To conserve energy, it defaults to what Daniel Kahneman famously called System 1 thinking: fast, automatic, and biased.
When a new leadership concept arrives, our brains instinctively simplify it. Psychological Safety? That must mean keeping everyone happy. Radical Candor? That must mean telling people the hard truth.
Unfortunately, these simplifications remove the very tension that made the ideas valuable in the first place. True Psychological Safety requires both empathy and accountability. Genuine Radical Candor demands both courage and compassion. But the brain prefers to pick a side.
This tendency isn’t laziness in the moral sense, it’s neural efficiency: a form of cognitive bias in leadership that operates below our conscious awareness. The prefrontal cortex, responsible for self-regulation, inhibition and perspective-taking, consumes vast cognitive energy. It’s easier to stick with our default style, agreeable or assertive, soft or strong, and justify it as ‘authentic’.
As we saw in the earlier articles, that’s the great irony of leadership development: the moment we think “I’ve got this concept,” our brain starts distorting it to match our comfort zone.
Most leaders don’t deliberately misuse good ideas; they’re quietly shaped by cognitive bias in leadership – a constellation of mental shortcuts that help explain why leadership theory often collapses under real-world pressure.
These biases are subtle, pervasive, and entirely human. They protect the ego from discomfort, but they also shield us from the effort of improvement.
For leaders who are often both strategist and operator, cognitive bias in leadership can have measurable costs.
The result is a slow erosion of trust and curiosity, two of the most expensive losses any business can suffer.
To move beyond the buzzwords, leaders must learn to think in balance. That’s where the Harrison Paradox Framework becomes so valuable. It shows how opposing or contradictory traits, when balanced, become strengths.
The Paradox of an Equity Mindset
This paradox is about creating mutually beneficial relationships that are sustainable over time. It balances being Assertive, clear about your own needs, with being Helpful, attentive to others’ needs.
When either side dominates, Psychological Safety collapses. Too much assertiveness feels unsafe; too much helpfulness creates self-sacrificing and resentment. Real equity lies in the balance, with clarity of mutual help. People feel both safe and stretched.
The Paradox of Self-Actualisation
This paradox sits at the heart of mindful leadership. It balances Self-Acceptance, appreciating who you are — with Self-Improvement, the drive to grow and better oneself.
When we lean too far either way, we distort learning: complacency on one side, self-criticism on the other. The balance point, what Dr Dan Harrison calls Self-Actualisation, is where mindful self-awareness lives.
It’s the ability to notice bias before it becomes judgment, or defensiveness before it silences dialogue. That awareness keeps leaders grounded and open, and it’s what allows real Psychological Safety to flourish.
Neuroscience tells us that awareness is the first step in rewiring behaviour. When we notice our internal reactions, the tension before giving feedback, the irritation when challenged, we momentarily interrupt the brain’s automatic responses.
That brief pause activates the prefrontal cortex and dampens the limbic system’s threat response. In that space, we can choose our response rather than default to it. Steven Covey refers to this a “Minding the Gap” between trigger and response.
This is the practice of mindful self-awareness. You don’t need to sit cross-legged in the boardroom. You simply notice the surge of certainty and ask, ‘Is this truth, or just comfort?’
In that micro-moment, bias loses its grip, and leadership becomes intentional again.
Moving beyond the buzzwords isn’t about rejecting them, it’s about reclaiming their depth and original meaning.
Real leadership begins when we hold these tensions – empathy and accountability, care and candor, acceptance and growth – with awareness.
That’s the paradoxical sweet spot where trust, engagement, and innovation thrive.
Leadership isn’t a collection of fashionable phrases; it’s a disciplined practice of awareness, balance, and courage.
Buzzwords become dangerous not because they’re wrong, but because they’re incomplete. They simplify what was meant to challenge us.
To lead well is to resist that simplification, to stay awake to the cognitive biases in leadership, to embrace discomfort as a teacher, and to practice mindful balance every day.
When we do that, Psychological Safety becomes the fertile soil for growth, Radical Candor becomes the sunlight of truth, and Self-Actualisation becomes the deep root of wisdom that holds it all together.
That’s leadership beyond the buzzwords.
Remember when it comes to new concepts and ideas . . . stay curious!
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